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Neil Ray
Ouellette
Nov 12, 1969 — Oct 8, 2020
Butte
Neil Ray Ouellette, 50, left this world on Thursday, October 8, 2020. He was
born November 12, 1969, in Butte, Montana, the son of Eugene G. and A. Gail
(Smeltzer) Ouellette.
Neil attended Webster-Garfield, West Junior High, and graduated from Butte
High School, Class of 1987. Following graduation, he enlisted in the U.S.
Marines and was stationed at Twenty-Nine Palms until he deployed for Iraq in
Operation Desert Storm. He received several medals, badges, and
commendations. He also endured many losses in combat and struggled to
recover from friendly fire and PTSD. After being honorably discharged from
active duty, he continued with his military career by joining the Reserves.
He later moved to St Louis, where he owned a successful landscaping and
contracting business where he had the opportunity to tackle new problems all
the time, moving from one challenge to the next. Everything intrigued him. He
was what you might call a tinkerer growing up.
No matter where he lived, all his neighbors knew him as someone that would
lend a helping hand. He would help anyone that needed help, whether it be
clothes, food, money, or a broken sump pump in the middle of the night. His
smile showed his pride in doing for others. His willingness to help people and
acts of kindness were most apparent when he went to help the victims of
Hurricane Katrina in Louisiana. His generosity to help others in need was
ongoing.
Neil was an avid outdoorsman and had an immense love for Montana. He
enjoyed fishing, snowmobiling, camping, or just taking rides through Fleecer,
Trusty, and over the Skalkaho Pass. Our brother's laugh, smile, and the glow he
had when he enjoyed what he was doing will be greatly missed.
Neil is survived by his beloved companions Baby girl and Missy, brother, Mark
(Debbie) Ouellette of Vancouver, WA; his sisters Lenore (Bill) Rowling, Sheila
Ouellette (Glen Van Matre) of St. Louis, MO, Debra Ouellette (Chip Freeman),
Cindy Ouellette, and Teresa (Eric) LaGrange of Tell City, IN. Nieces and
Nephews - Erica (Frank) Green, Stephanie Rowling (Ed Heard), Ethan
Rowling (Shelby Hart), Alicia (CJ) Hayden, Dylan LaGrange and Jolean
LaGrange. Great nieces and nephews - Brayden and Landon Green, Caleb and
Kaden Heard, Chloe and Mya Rowling, Connor LaGrange, Vash and Luna
Hayden. He will also be forever remembered by his uncles and aunts in
Montana and North Dakota, cousins, extended family, and dear friends.
He was preceded in death by his parents, stepfather John Fish, Jr, .
The family wishes to thank Gary & Faith Cooper for their friendship with Neil. He loved going fishing, snowmobiling, and sledding with you and your family.
Abiding by Neil's wishes, his remains have been cremated. A graveside service and celebration of life will be held in the Spring of 2021. Duggan Dolan Mortuary has been entrusted with Neil's services.
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